I found this picture on Tumblr and felt the need to put it on DeviantArt for the people who don't use Tumblr or won't see it.
Here's the original.[link]
For those who are worrisome about links, or are just too lazy, here's the written out version.
- NONFATAL injuries
- Death/harm threats
- Defending of partner when they are threatened
- Caring about partner's well being
- Messing with partner's head.
- Viewing them as less than a person.
- Enforcing your own superiority over them.
- Plots to bring harm to or kill them. ((NOTE: PLOTS NOT PLANS
- Not wanting partner to die or be hurt badly.Kismesissitude DON'T's
- Partying when partner is forcibly removed from your location.
- Actually TRYING to bring fatal harm to or kill them.
- Attempting to change or alter them in a physical or mental way.
- Attacking or removing signs of partner during their absence.
- Harming partner's Matesprit, Moirail, or friends at any time.
- Bringing fatal harm to or killing partner.
- Treating partner like an animal or garbage.
- Refusing to look at or talk about partner at all times.
- Being happy about partner's death or mortal wound(s).
- Depriving partner of basic needs or wants without reason or point.
- Refusing to be near or hatesnog with partner.
-Spending no time with partner yet still claiming quadrant position.
- Using/turning partner's loved ones against them.
- Preventing partner and loved ones from seeing one another.
- Holding on to partner's past wrongdoings sweeps after the fact and using it as sole reason for quadrant position.
- Allowing others to bring harm to or attempt to kill partner.
- Observing with glee while partner is on the brink of death.
- Being an asshole in general.KISMESISSITUDE AND DOUCHEBAGERY.
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE.